Relationship Notes 

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What ever you want more of, you must be and you must give more of.

Most people that I know want to be loved respected and trusted but tragically all too few people actually feel this way and this leads to feelings of resentment and unhappiness. So let's look at these feelings.

You want to be loved. Well the first thing is that you must be lovable. You must be the kind of person that others find easy to love so you should be kind and considerate. You should be polite and courteous. You should be passionate and fun. The second thing that you must be is loving. You should be the one who treats others as special, who gives compliments and sympathy. Let others know that you love them.

You want to be respected. Well first you must be respectable. You must behave in a way that is worthy of respect. You cannot demand respect you have to earn it You must be the person that others look up to. Second. You must be respectful. You have to treat others with respect if you want them to respect you. Too many people rely on their position as a means of forcing respect and this just doesn't work. Your position might give you authority but it is your behaviour that earns you respect.

You want to be trusted. Well it stands to reason that you must be trustworthy. Your word must be your bond. People must be able to rely on you. Remember that trust is given in faith and earned through experience.

To improve all your relationships remember that whatever you want you must first be and you must give more of.

Listen to an audio message We should strive to live by the virtues we wish others had

To live your best life be true to the YOU, that you want to be.

Live with passion. Change your life from making a living to making a difference.

Live up to the reputation that you want to have.